Loss of Consortium: Affection, Companionship, and Love

loss of consortium damages

If you’ve lost meaningful relations with your partner because of their personal injury or wrongful death, you might be owed loss of consortium damages

People in relationships get lonely, too. If someone is no longer able to participate in a meaningful relationship with their partner because of a personal injury or wrongful death, that partner can get legal recovery. Find out what’s included in a loss of consortium claim, how to prove it, and what to do if you have a case.
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Loss of consortium. If you've heard the term, it might be as a punchline or hypothetical, but it's a real cause of action in a personal injury lawsuit.

Most people's perception of loss of consortium is that it's just about a spouse whose injury results in an inability to have sexual relations. Yes, that's part of it. But the legal definition includes other relationships, too — loss of care and affection are part of consortium and it's not limited to the marital sexual relationship. 

What's included in a loss of consortium claim?

Loss of consortium includes:

  • Love
  • Affection
  • Companionship
  • Comfort
  • Society
  • Sexual relations

Most loss of consortium cases are based on the loss of a legal spouse, but some states allow claims for committed partners, and even parents and children.

Loss of consortium is always within a personal injury case. If you're injured by the negligence or a wrongful act of another person or legal entity (for example, a manufacturer or property owner), you can file a personal injury lawsuit. A personal injury lawsuit is filed so that the injured person (plaintiff) can receive money as compensation for medical treatment, lost wages, therapies or rehabilitation, and other expenses related to their financial losses from the injury. The purpose is for the injured person to be made whole — in other words, restored to the condition you were in prior to the accident. A loss of consortium claim is typically filed by the spouse or partner of the person who was killed or injured.

As we know, money pays for lots of things that make our lives easier, but it can't replace love and affection. Still, the courts make it possible to provide some financial compensation based on these intangible losses. When a loss of consortium claim is filed by a surviving child or parent, it's called “filial consortium.” Filial consortium damages are for lost love, care, and companionship that come with losing a child to death or irrevocable injury.

Most states only allow filial consortium damages if the child has died. However, there are a few states that do provide for loss of consortium for a child who is severely injured. Such states include Massachusetts, Florida, and Arizona, among others.

Loss of filial consortium for an injured child:
Pansey Dempsey gave birth to her daughter, Loren, in 1988. The baby was born with severe breathing difficulties. The medical team attempted to resuscitate her immediately after birth, but a tube that was intended to bring oxygen to her lungs was mistakenly placed down her esophagus. She was without oxygen for about 50 minutes until the mistake was discovered, which resulted in her being forced to live with a disability. She would never walk or talk, and would require intensive medical care for her entire life. The court ruled that the parents suffered the loss of a normal relationship with their daughter and the judge awarded them $1.3 million. The Florida Supreme Court said, “The loss of a child's companionship and society is one of the primary losses that the parent of a severely injured child must endure.” (U.S. v. Dempsey, 1994)

Enjuris tip: A loss of consortium claim can be filed by a spouse, parent, or child if the injured or deceased person is no longer able to provide love, affection, companionship, parenting, care, or continue a sexual relationship.

Loss of consortium and non-economic damages

It's hard to place a dollar value on loss of consortium because it's a non-economic damage, which means that money can't replace what's actually been lost. It's similar to damages awarded for physical pain and suffering or emotional distress, which are equally difficult to quantify. A loss of consortium claim can only be for the most severe injuries — for example wrongful death, paralysis, amputation, or incontinence. These injuries need to be long-lasting or permanent to result in a loss of consortium.

The importance of non-economic damages

“The joy of life - what makes it really worth living - is not the earning of money to pay to others for life's necessities. When a person is seriously injured, the greatest loss is the loss of the enjoyment of life, the pleasure, the satisfaction or the utility that human beings derive from life, separate and apart from earnings. These are non-economic injuries.

What is truly valuable to us as human beings is our ability to live life on a daily basis free of any debilitating physical or emotional problems that diminish our capacity to enjoy life and compromise our sense of self-worth, dignity, and integrity.

The pleasure of living lies in our ability to participate fully in the give and take of marriage, family and career. It lies in our experience of the ordinary day: waking up without pain; drinking a cup of coffee without someone's help; dressing a child in mismatched clothes that she insists on wearing, rather than have that child dress you; walking to the bus stop or subway in the brisk air, rather than being wheeled to a lift van; accomplishing a job well done at work, rather than being limited to a make-work project for the disabled; deciding what to make for dinner and preparing it; these and thousands of everyday things are what we live for.”

Source: Center for Justice & Democracy at New York Law School

How to prove loss of consortium

Unlike other areas of law, there's no specific test or set of rules used to prove or calculate loss of consortium damages. The court would likely look at these and additional factors:

  • Was it a loving and stable marriage?
  • Spouses' living arrangements
  • Type of care and companionship between the spouses
  • Spouses' individual life expectancies
  • Role in child-rearing and household responsibilities

If a spouse is injured in a car accident, for example, and the physical injuries make them unable to provide love, affection, companionship, and a sexual relationship to the other spouse — in addition to household maintenance and chores, responsibilities of raising children, and other lifestyle activities — the non-injured spouse could claim damages for those losses.

Enjuris tip: Loss of consortium laws vary by state. In general, you need to prove three factors for a loss of consortium claim:

  1. The plaintiffs (the injured person and partner) were in a committed cohabitating relationship both before the accident and after.
  2. The injury or death was caused by the defendant's negligence or wrongful acts.
  3. Because of the defendant's wrongful acts, the partner of the injured person has suffered and will continue to suffer loss of society, affection, assistance, and sexual relations and that this will be detrimental to their ongoing relationship or life.

Examples of loss of consortium cases

Villaseca v. City of New York, 2008. The plaintiff, a teacher, was injured when a student slammed a school door into the side of the teacher's head. It was determined that the Board of Education was liable because it hadn't met the standards for inspection and maintenance of the door. The teacher had nine surgeries and experienced a loss of vision. The teacher was awarded $5 million for pain and suffering. His wife was awarded $750,000 for loss of consortium because she had to assume responsibility for household chores, cooking, taking care of their child, and helping her husband in his daily activities.

Bissell v. Town of Amherst, 2012. The plaintiff became paraplegic as a result of a work-related accident. He received workers' compensation for treatment of his physical injuries and lost wages. The injuries left him paralyzed, incontinent, and sexually dysfunctional. His wife took over his medical and hygienic care and was awarded $1 million for loss of consortium.

How to file a loss of consortium claim

A claim for loss of consortium is usually included as part of a personal injury lawsuit. Your lawyer will first need to establish the defendant's fault, determine medical expenses and other costs, and the other elements present in a personal injury case.

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