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Home > Blog > My Accident Story > Dawne’s Story: From Car Crash Survivor to Support Group Leader

Dawne’s Story: From Car Crash Survivor to Support Group Leader

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How one motor vehicle crash survivor decided to help others

Join us in welcoming Dawne McKay as she shares her inspiring story from a traumatic car accident to helping others. Learn all about her support group and how she copes day to day. Thanks for contributing to Enjuris, Dawne! Take it away…

Dawne McKay, creator of Facebook Motor Vehicle Accident Support Group

One week prior to my crash, I was on vacation in Florida with my boyfriend and I was suddenly jolted awake in the middle of the night with a terrible feeling that something awful had happened to someone close to me.

It was a feeling that I had never experienced before, and I thought I was going to get a call that someone had passed unexpectedly. I carried this feeling with me for days, and I just couldn’t seem to shake this unsettling, anxious feeling, no matter how hard I tried.

One week – to the day – I was involved in a horrific car crash.

I was on my way to work, stopped to make a left-hand turn when I was rear-ended by an SUV that clocked in at 80 km/h and pushed me into the path of a transport truck.

My life as I knew it suddenly changed in a matter of seconds.

And then reality hit me

I was taken to a local hospital, but my injuries were so severe that they had to transport me to a trauma center. When I arrived in the trauma unit I remember being greeted by the chaplain, as I was truly lucky to be alive. I suffered multiple injuries, including a head injury and a horrendous seatbelt wound on my thigh.

I only spent three days in the trauma unit, as they decided to discharge me even though I couldn’t walk. I think back to that morning – about how I was actually excited to be leaving the hospital, how I couldn’t wait to have a shower, wash my hair and put my pajamas on.

I didn’t realize that I would be absolutely terrified to get into another vehicle, how bad the pain would be once the morphine had worn off.

I realized that I could not walk and I was in excruciating pain.

After the accident – looking for support

Daily nursing, physiotherapists, occupational therapists, personal support workers and numerous medical follow-up appointments had now become my new way of life – not to mention financial strain, flashbacks, sleepless nights, constant pain, the “what if’s” and anxiety.

I had a job that I loved, and my social life and friendships as I once knew them came to a screeching halt.

Friends who I thought would be there weren’t there, and I suddenly found myself realizing who my real friends were.

As I had never been in a motor vehicle collision like this, it was a huge learning curve and recovery for me. My crash happened in 2012, and I still continue to attend outpatient rehabilitation.

I am still trying my best to cope with the chronic pain, sleepless nights and flashbacks.

Today and every day I try my best to be as positive as I can.

Creating the support group I couldn’t find

In 2016, I decided to create a Facebook support group for Motor Vehicle Crash Survivors.

I took it upon myself to not only build the support I was seeking, but to spread it out to others who were in similar situations.

There are over 1,000 members; a lot of them are either recovering from their motor vehicle crash or just starting to go through the process.

Knowing you are not alone is the main thing, and bringing people together and finding support in one another is very therapeutic.

I find that once survivors are discharged from the hospital, they really don’t have anywhere to reach out to other victims.

The group is strictly to provide members with emotional support while they recover physically, financially and legally. No medical or legal advice is allowed in the group.

As membership grew within our online support group, I noticed a further need for continuous support and founded a quarterly newsletter entitled “Sharing our Recovery,” which quickly evolved into a Crash Survivor Blog. I also self-published a book—“Talk Crash to Me – What to Expect After Surviving a Collision and How to Manage Your Recovery”—which is available for purchase on Amazon.

Feeling grateful – a look in the rearview mirror

As I look in my rearview mirror to that awful morning, I see fear that has turned into courage, I see helplessness that has turned into independence, and I see weakness that has turned into strength.

I see medical and legal professionals, once strangers, who have turned into new friendships that will be in my life for many years to come.

I see a kind and patient man that has been my rock and has been by my side every step of the way.

I see how an overwhelmed, struggling person seeking a support group where none existed was able to create an online medium that made support available to other survivors.

I will continue to advocate and bring awareness to my group, as no one should ever have to feel alone after such a life-changing event.

For more information on the Crash Support Network, please visit www.crashsupportnetwork.com.

About Dawne

Crash Support Network The Crash Support Network is a unique one-of-a-kind website that provides a helpful resource for survivors of motor vehicle crashes. Dawne continues to donate countless hours to her crash survivor community by sharing resources, highly informative content and inspiring posts with survivors from all across the world.

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  1. Enjuris Editor says

    August 28, 2017 at 10:32 am

    Very sorry to hear what you went thru, Dawne. I admire how you’re now helping others, what a great heart!

    Reply
    • Dawne says

      January 3, 2022 at 2:33 pm

      From Florida
      Thank you ! No one should feel alone as they recover from a motor vehicle crash. I appreciate you allowing me to share my story.

      Reply
  2. Meg says

    February 1, 2018 at 11:01 pm

    So sorry you had to go through this. I pray that no one else has to.

    Reply
  3. Sandy says

    December 21, 2018 at 4:38 pm

    I was hit and run over by a car in the parking lot of my local Walmart. I was just walking back to my car after shopping. My ribcage was basically destroyed along with other injuries including a fractured clavicle and shattered shoulder blade on my right shoulder. I am home now from the hospital, but am still in agonizing pain, can’t work, can’t drive, and need help from family and friends to do everything from grocery shop and cook for me.

    Reply
    • Lance Buchanan says

      January 2, 2019 at 1:37 pm

      Thanks for sharing your story, Sandy. We’re so sorry to hear about your accident. If you haven’t already, we strongly recommend contacting a personal injury attorney to get help looking into your legal options. Just because it was a hit and run doesn’t mean you are without rights to compensation from your insurance company. Feel free to use our free directory if you need help finding a lawyer near you: https://www.enjuris.com/directory/

      Also, we invite you to consider sharing more with the Enjuris audience if you’d like. We’d love to hear your story. You can visit this page to find out more information: https://www.enjuris.com/tell-your-story/

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  4. Lynn says

    April 10, 2019 at 1:01 pm

    I really feel this. So sorry you still suffer from it. You truly do find out who really cares for you. Its been so hard dealing with everything on my own. Being a single mom, i had to make sure my son made it to and from school, no matter how much pain or anxiety i was having, no matter how afraid i am to be on the road… the physical, emotional, mental and financial strain is a hard combination to deal with but i had to force myself to be stronger. Unfortunately as soon as i lay myself to bed, the anxiety and pain hit me hard… i was hit 3 months ago. Both cars totalled. I just thank god im alive..

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